Great idea, not so great experience. As soon as we saw the We-Vibe design, we had to try it. Welcome to the future of dual orgasms and making love without having to grind out a woman’s clitoris with your pubic bone for an hour waiting for her to orgasm first.
Nessa and I struggled for years with the fact that she couldn’t orgasm during intercourse. Well I did, Nessa knew her body and it never really bothered her. Eventually I learned to accept that all women are different and no matter how long or well I perform, sometimes women just can’t orgasm through purely penetration. As a young man, it’s hard to accept this idea. Eventually I conceded and gave up on it. My wife could only cum with oral sex.
Nessa taught me how to give her oral sex by teaching me to use my tongue in the same motion she would use her fingers when she masturbated as a young girl. I even asked her to masturbate in front of me. As she did, I watched her circle her clit in the same motion I would move my tongue during oral sex. After 30 to 40 minutes of complete silence and no variation in movement, she would orgasm. Of course, I learned to do the same thing with my fingers, even getting her to orgasm by jacking her clit with my fingertips like it was a miniature penis. This eventually led us to rubbing her clitoris with our fingers during sex, and if we were patient enough, I finally got to feel her orgasm while I fucked her. This was not an easy take because it usually took 30 to 40 minutes of slow movement, no interaction (even talking threw her off), a robotic like rhythm that couldn’t have any variation, a lot of patience, and a dick that stays erect. Although the reward was good for both of our egos, it was just physically and emotionally draining to fail.
And then came this cheap vibrating bullet that was either originally part of a vibrating cock ring or a cheap set of vibrating nipple clamps. I can’t remember exactly but the bullet made our sex life so much easier. Rather than 30 to 40 minutes, Nessa could orgasm during sex after about 5 to 10 minutes of stimulation from the vibrator. I also didn’t have to move with such a robotic pace. This became a crutch for our sex life as we both wanted to orgasm together. As the cheap vibrators would break, we’d upgrade into something more powerful. Each time, Nessa would orgasm quicker, until she was cumming 3 to 4 times per session.
Although Nessa had orgasms during sex, we both had a goal of making it happen hands free. I can remember nights of grinding against her crotch until we were both were totally exhausted. Nothing.
Enter: We-Vibe 4.
When we purchased this item we felt it was going to be the answer to a lot of our problems. Hands free orgasms where she can get the vibrations she needs to orgasm and as an added bonus the dual vibrating We-Vibe will also be inside her body massaging her G-Spot. Sounds perfect.
The things I didn’t take into consideration? I didn’t realize how awkward it would be to have this plastic thing hanging half way outside of Nessa’s vagina while trying to stick my penis inside her. Not only was it totally uncomfortable for both of us, but it also had very little strength as a vibrator and only frustrated Nessa more. We purchased this item when it was first released a few years ago and have only tried it once. I’d rather wear a condom than feel this thing rubbing against my penis on the inside of Nessa’s vagina. It’s very unnatural and flat out awkward.
Thankfully, midlife hormones or Nessa and I just being more sexually compatible, has helped Nessa realize
More Info and Price:
We-Vibe takes couples to new heights of pleasure. Couples use it together during sex or when they’re apart. She gets extra stimulation to her clitoris and G-spot and together they both share the vibe.
- App adds smartphone control, more modes, customization and distance play
- Compact, body-hugging form stiff mid-section to stay in place
- Wireless remote control
- 100% waterproof
- Fast recharging charges fully in 4 hours for up to 3 hours of pleasure
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