Threesome Memoirs – A Threesome From Every Perspective – Our First Friend

Nessa’s experience:

Usually with our threesome experiences we deal with women we have only known for a short period or only few months.  However, we do know a few ladies who we have known since the beginning of our threesome journey, that either played the role of the more experienced mentor or we just had too much distance between us to ever physically connect.   In this case, our friend Lexxi, is someone we have have known for a long time, but the distance between us was too great for anything other than her giving Ryan and I advice on our journey.  We were always grateful for her input, and of course, we were both attracted to her as a person.  Other problems?  Oh yea, I forgot to mention she was married and we were also good friends with her husband, who has played a role as Ryan’s mentor and has even been quoted by Ryan in different blogs he has written.  So, having a threesome was never really an option.

After months of talking about soft swinging or threesomes, we all got more familiar with one another.  Although hard swinging, which is full swapping, was always a hard boundary we were not interested in, soft swinging, where we would open our bedroom to another couple simply to watch them play with each other while we did the same, was something that piqued our curiosity.  Honestly, at first, this was our original goal.  I do not think it was because we wanted to swing, but we both felt like we were exhibitionists and wanted to share our sexual experiences while another couple watched.  I just wanted to see another woman.  Through the website, starting with deepthroating videos, we eventually recorded ourselves having sex and submitted these videos to porn websites, which in total, probably got us near a million views.  Whether we purposely did it or not, we became soft swingers to every couple that ever watched our videos and knew us personally.  They could talk to us, see our sex videos, and in essence, get turned on by what they saw.  This was really like new-age soft swinging.  However, because of me not wanting to be watched or around another man, the idea of soft swinging eventually faded.  I have since blogged about how I felt like I was a lesbian married to Ryan.  It’s true, but it’s not true.  I like men, and I know that I could only live the rest of my life with a man.  However, those areas of my heart and mind are taken.  I have no desire to experience another man, no fantasies, and therefore my only focus is on other women.  Do I really feel like a lesbian?  Absolutely not, but that is the best way I can describe what I feel.

So far this is the most boring threesome story ever, huh?  Ha!  I felt adding a backstory to the story of how I laid Lexxi on her back would help our readers make more sense of our first experience with a friend, and I guess you could say couple.

After a year of discussing a trip the other couple was taking, it was mutually agreed upon that the husband would allow his wife to spend a few hours alone with us in our bedroom.  Our friends were swingers and for them this wasn’t something totally new to them, just something they normally didn’t do.  However, as our mentors who have talked us through multiple issues, they decided it would be fun to give us a threesome experience without the downsides of drama, craziness, and the unexpected.

The night started with nice conversation as I made a Filipino meal for everyone to enjoy while we all talked and got more comfortable around each other.  It wasn’t the first time we met, so I was relaxed and comfortable with their company.  I definitely noticed Ryan and the husband really getting along well, which I knew would not help him later.  He is extremely loyal, and if he considers someone a friend, he doesn’t want to disappoint that person or make them feel used.   Not that we were planning on using anyone, well at least he wasn’t, but I definitely wanted to use Lexxi.  In fact, as we ate I couldn’t think about anything other than sitting on her face.  I am not sure if it was because she was so cute to me, or because her lips and mouth totally turned me on, but I just wanted to sit on her face and feel her tongue for hours.   At times I totally tuned out the conversation, getting caught up in my own dirty thoughts.   Also, I was a bit uncomfortable being myself because I was not used to another couple.  I wasn’t uncomfortable with them, but I was uncomfortable giving Lexxi the attention I wanted to give her sexually.  My bottom lip still hurts from biting it multiple times thinking about what I really wanted to do to her in the sexy dress she was wearing.

As the night went on, I was sitting around my bedroom with everyone talking while I was reading a naughty story Lexxi wrote.  I could no longer stay reserved so I announced to the room that I wanted to take a shower (cooooooooold shower).  I think this was the trigger that let everyone know that if this threesome was going to happen, it was going to happen soon or I was going take Ryan alone and fuck his brains out.  Lexxi and her husband excused themselves to freshen up and headed to the guest room.  This was when they were to decide if they wanted Lexxi to help us create an experience together.

When I got out of the shower, Lexxi was sitting on the couch in my room with a pair of short satin boxers on and a t-shirt.  She looked amazing.  Ryan came back into the room and sat in the chair on the far end of our bed.  I sat on the chair next to the couch and was going over the different ways I wanted to approach my friend and get her nude.

Okay, I admit, I was scared and had no idea how to really start things off.

Thankfully, Lexxi got up off the couch and sat next to me.  Immediately we started kissing.   Her lips were so soft and she kissed so nicely I didn’t want to stop.  Usually, I’d attack the woman, but with her I wanted to enjoy the moment.

Ryan quietly walked behind her as we were kissing and started kissing behind her ear and down her neck.  As he reached her collarbone, her shirt was in the way so he slowly lifted it off her body.  Both of our hands caressed her breasts as Ryan nicely slid his tongue down her shoulder and over her nipple.  As he reached past her nipple, he then went back to her arm and slid his tongue down to her hand and kissed her palm and wrist.  He moved himself into position to sit in front of Lexxi in the chair and slid her shorts off her body.  She was nude and exposed.  I kissed her lips as I watched Ryan through my peripherals slide his tongue between her legs.  She stopped kissing me immediately and began to moan.  I explored her breasts and body as I got a closer look of Ryan tongue tickling Lexxi’s clit and piercings.   The moans echoed throughout the room.  Lexxi’s body slowly slid down in the chair as she lifted her hips to rub herself harder against Ryan’s face.   Ryan reached up, grabbed my hand, and pulled me down to him.  He then stood up and sat over on the bed.  I slowly slide my face down Lexxi’s body and took over from where Ryan left off.  Her clit was still wet from Ryan’s saliva as she again moaned when she felt another tongue’s attention.

I sat up and motioned for us to get on the bed.  I really wanted to sit on her face and bury her in my pussy, but I decided that against that for now.  As she laid on the bed, Ryan took his pants off and positioned himself over her face.  She reached for Ryan’s cock and pulled him into her mouth.  I kissed her thighs slowly as I watched her enjoy Ryan’s penis, my penis.  I slid my fingers inside her pussy and circled her clit with my thumb.  I asked Ryan if she sucked dick good and he affirmed with a nod.  He reached down and grabbed her head and pushed her against his crotch.  He then reached down with his other hand and repositioned her hand from beneath his balls to on his asshole.  This turned me on so much.  I no longer wanted to play with her pussy, but instead wanted to whisper in Lexxi’s ear about how sexy she looked sucking on his cock and playing with his ass.   I slowly moved my entire body up hers and noticed she was pulling his dick out of her mouth and gasping for air.  I felt like I wanted to explode on the inside just from hearing that gasping sound.  Ryan wasn’t erect, but was plump enough for Lexxi and I to hold and enjoy.  He was also plump enough for our throats to enjoy him perfectly.  I grabbed his dick from her mouth and shoved it down my throat to add my own saliva to his shaft.   I quickly put it back in her mouth so I could see her enjoy him again.  I immediately went down to the base of his cock and began to lick up and down as Lexxi sucked on his head.  I slid my tongue up to the tip and licked Lexxi’s lips as she sucked my husband’s dick.  I whispered in Lexxi’s ear that she sucks dick so good and I told her it turned me on so much to see my dick in her mouth.  Ryan reached down and grabbed her head again, pushing her face against his lap.  I could see the last inch of his dick bend as he was trying to push it down her throat.  Then it disappeared.  Ryan moaned in ecstasy.   Lexxi quickly pulled him back out and gasped for air.  I love it.

I see Ryan looking at us and I can tell he wants more.  He is grabbing the base of his dick trying to get his blood to rush to the tip to create more of an erect effect.  He shoves his dick back in her mouth but I can see he is starting to get frustrated.  He wants to be erect and really feel her throat the way he is used to.  I again grab his dick and suck on him, thinking maybe this would help, but it didn’t.   He then positions his body above her, wanting to face fuck in hopes this movement will relax him enough to enjoy the moment.  He moves back and forth over her mouth while I spread his ass cheeks and lick his ass hole.   After a few moments Ryan gets up and says sorry to us both, then slides his pants back on.

I look up to Ryan and lip to him that I love him and lay next to Lexxi, still kissing her body and enjoying her in my bed.  I slide my fingers between her legs and finger her clit. Ryan walks around to my side of the bed and starts eating out my ass and pussy as he softly rubs on Lexxi’s knee and thigh from the side.   I moved away from Ryan’s mouth and stood my body over Lexxi’s face.  I positioned my pussy as if I was refueling a plane in mid-flight and slowly squatted to make sure my vagina lips were directly over her mouth.  My body was backwards so my face was towards the wall above her head and my ass was faced towards her legs.  I was delighted to feel her tongue and lips on my pussy.   Hopefully she was comfortable, because I planned to sit on her face for the rest of the night.  Ryan reached to the side of the bed and grabbed the  Magic Wand massager we purchased just for this experience.  I could hear him turn it on and immediately her body began to squirm below me.  The vibration sound from the massager was drown out by Lexxi’s loud moans.  Her tongue movement almost stopped as she tried to maintain a rhythm but was being thrown off by what she felt between her legs.  Ryan held the massager up to her clit with one hand as he was rubbing my back and ass with his other.  I felt her tongue totally disappear from between my lips and her face shoot up into my crotch as she tensed up and loudly moaned, letting Ryan know she was cumming.

After sensing Lexxi was sensitive Ryan turned off the Magic Wand.  I turned around so I could hover my face over her pussy in the 69 position, and suck Ryan’s dick.  I again lowered my pussy over her face so I could feel her chin on my crotch and her tongue inside me. I began fingering her clit,  as Ryan stood off the bed in front of us and watched.  I whispered to him that I loved him and wanted to see his dick inside her.  He leaned forward and whispered back in my ear that he loved me and added, “It’s not going to happen.”

I knew what he meant but I didn’t want to give up so easy.  I reached up and pulled his pants back down.  I grabbed his cock and pulled him towards me.  With his dick now in my face I licked his balls and put his cock in my mouth.  He leaned back and rubbed on Lexxi’s inner thighs as I fingered her clit.  I could feel Lexxi’s tongue inside my body deep, and I loved every moment.  At times, I would open my eyes and it felt like time stopped.  I took Ryan’s dick out of my mouth and forced it down to her clit so I could rub it against it.   Lexxi moaned as she felt the commotion against her vagina and I started beating Ryan’s penis against her clit in a slow rhythmic motion.   She moaned loudly and seemed to enjoy the attention we paid to her body.

Ryan grabbed his dick from my hands and continued to use his penis as a drum stick on Lexxi’s clit while I fingered her pussy.    I grabbed his penis back from him and put it back in my mouth.  The feeling of his cock and her tongue in my body was euphoric.  I could no longer hold back and came on Lexxi’s face as I shoved Ryan’s cock down my throat.

I quickly pulled Ryan over to the side of my body wanting him to shove his penis in my pussy as I was in mid-orgasm.  The feeling of his penis stretching my walls usually helps me with sensitivity so I could stay on Lexxi’s face.  I wanted to keep enjoying Lexxi’s tongue; I’m greedy.  Ryan moved back behind me where Lexxi was still underneath me licking as my body was convulsing.  Ryan rubbed his dick against my pussy as he slid half of his cock inside me.  Lexxi moved her tongue off of my now sensitive clit and began licking up from my pussy to Ryan’s shaft and balls.  Back and forth, her tongue traveled from each of our body parts as Ryan slowly moved his cock around my pussy.  The attention off my clit for the few moments helped me recover so I could keep feeding Lexxi my pussy without sensitivity.  Which I did.

Ryan wasn’t hard enough to stay inside my pussy as felt his dick slipping out of my body.  He pulled himself away from my pussy and Lexxi’s tongue and came back around to my mouth to let me taste myself.  I loved how it tasted. Ryan sat in front of us on the floor, as I was still fingering and licking Lexxi’s clit.   I sat up and pressed my body against Lexxi’s face.  The only thing I could really think about was seeing his penis inside her pussy.  For those readers’ that have followed our blog, you know Ryan has talked about not being able to get erect during our threesomes.  Whether it be from nerves, him being totally comfortable, or his body just not reacting to the situation he is not used too.  I knew that weighed heavily on his mind because we spoke about it prior and I knew he wanted to make Lexxi’s experience better, simply because he considered her a friend.   I looked at him and motioned that I wanted to see his dick inside her.  He got up and whispered he would try.   He then went to the side dresser and grabbed a condom.  I watched him put the condom on as I knew Lexxi was clueless as to what was going on between her legs.  My ass cheeks were on each side of her face and her eyes were completely covered.  Ryan grabbed the base of his dick and slid his cock back and forth between her lips.  As he lathered up the condom with my saliva and her juices, he slowly slid his cock inside her.  Almost immediately I could see his cock grow.  I felt myself get so wet that I felt embarrassed I may have  leaked onto Lexxi’s face.  I didn’t want to overwelm her so I squeezed my pussy trying to maintain my fluids from splashing out.   Restraint.

Ryan asked me if I had seen enough and I motioned to him no.  He continued to move his cock inside her as I noticed his dick was the most full it had been the entire night.  Ryan immediately got excited and said out loud, “If this thing gets hard this pussy is in trouble…”

I gasped at the idea.  I loved it.  Again, Ryan looked at me as I watched his cock move back and forth inside her.  He finally let go of the base and his cock could move inside her without the help of his hand pressure.  He asked me if I had seen enough and I shook my head no and went down to lick her clit and get a closer look at my penis inside her.  He immediately grabbed me below my chin hard and pulled me back up to his eyes, and said, “I need you to talk to me and tell me what you want.”

He was worried I would be upset later, and I understood.  I get carried away in the moments and he knows from our past experiences that if reads me wrong, it hurts me later.  I looked at him and ordered him to keep fucking her.  He slowly pulled his dick out so I could see its entire length, the slowly slid it back inside her.   I wanted his cock now.

Ryan continues to move back and forth and I grab his ass and pull his body into my face.  This forced his entire shaft inside her body.  I looked up at him and asked him to take the condom off and fuck me.  Ryan backed out of her pussy and took the condom off.  His length was long but it wasn’t stiff.  I wanted him to hurry up so I could feel it in my body.  He walked over to the bathroom to get rid of the condom and rub a towel over his dick to help rid the condom smell.  By the time he came back I knew it wasn’t going to happen tonight.  He got back on the bed and scooted back behind me.  He positioned himself over Lexxi’s face and in front of my pussy.  After a few moments of feeling his dick slip inside my pussy only to be pushed out by the tightness, he announced he is done.  He walks into the bathroom to wash the condom smell off his dick and I… still…. sit on Lexxi’s face.  I guess you could say, I was extremely comfortable.

Ryan came back into the room and grabbed my head as he laid off to the side of me.  He then motioned for me to come put my mouth on his dick and I quickly obliged.  Lexxi quickly followed.  I positioned myself between his legs so I could lift one of them and suck on his balls and lick his ass.  Lexxi positioned herself off to his side and started sucking his dick.  Ryan had his hand on my head and Lexxi’s back and I looked up and saw him quit looking and lay his head back against the pillow.  He moaned loudly and said perfect.  After a few moments he requested us switch positions and Lexxi placed her face between his lap as I took over the cock.  Lexxi placed one of her fingers on his ass hole and Ryan announced outloud that the tip of her finger felt perfect, but do not stick it any further in.  We both giggled as I knew he loved his ass played with, but not too much.  He moaned more and began to talk to each of us, saying how beautiful we looked and how what we were doing felt amazing.  Lexxi was licking from her finger playing with his ass up to his balls only stopping to suck on his guiche piercing.   I was stroking him roughly as I sucked on his dick.  He was getting turned on and I knew he wanted to fill my mouth with cum.  Lexxi and I switched places a few more times, sharing the workload, as Ryan complimented each of us for doing everything perfect.   I could feel his body tense up and his muscles twitch, a feeling I knew well.  I grabbed his dick with both hands and sucked on his head waiting for his explosion when … the doorbell rang.   Dang it!

At that point I knew I would have to finish Ryan later, the interruption was the last straw and our session with our friend ended.  For me, it was an amazing experience given the circumstances, but of course, we are still very new to threesomes and we had never dealt sexually with someone we considered a friend or mentor, or having the husband a room away.   We still appreciated the opportunity to share our bedroom with a lovely lady, and of course thank both of them for letting us create a new wonderful experience.

As far as Ryan’s experience, this is something he has been proud of since we’ve had threesomes.  We’ve learned that within the swinger community being able to perform is very important, but within our relationship him not being able to get an erection has been extremely flattering.  I am the only girl Ryan has ever been with completely.  Prior to me, he also had experiences where he didn’t feel comfortable enough to perform, and he bragged that I was the only girl that ever made him feel totally at ease.  I think he is torn between letting me down and no longer being exclusive to just me, and wanting to make me happy and have a fulfilling threesome experience.  I understand his frustration, and I am still unsure what I really want too.   My heart wants him to stay limp, my dirty side wants him to become rock hard and show me what it’s like to see my dick fuck another woman.  We’re learning.

Lexxi’s experience:

My hubby and I have been talking with and building a friendship with the Bloggs for almost a year now.  When we planned a trip to Florida this year, we contacted them to ask if we could meet face to face.  The intention in our request was not to play since we knew that they were interested in single ladies to partake in threesome play. We just wanted to put faces to the people we had begun to consider friends.  As the date got closer to meet, talk of play started to present itself.  But it was clear that they were only interested in playing with me, Lexxi.  While they tried to create a scenario that included my husband Bob, it was apparent that any possible situation involving him would make the Bloggs uncomfortable.  Bob assured them several times that he was fine with them playing with me, without him.  My only condition was that he needed to be nearby, as in the next room.  I needed him to be able to come to me if I needed him.

In the weeks leading up to our trip, we spoke on and off with the Bloggs.  The topics of conversation included ideas of how we could play together.  These ideas even included the possibility of fulfilling one of my fantasies; being dominated by a woman.  I found Nessa to be a very strong woman who knows what she wants and gets it.  After having read some twitter posts describing things she did to Ryan for his birthday, I knew it would be fun to let her do some of those things to me.  The things that intrigued me most was being tied up and given orders by Nessa.

Unfortunately, in the week before our visit, Ryan informed me that he couldn’t bring himself to have that happen while Bob sat in the next room.  He felt that it wouldn’t be very hospitable and he felt that it wouldn’t be fair to Bob, let alone the fact that they are using and “abusing” his wife and the Bloggs’ would not, in any way, be comfortable with Bob in the room to watch.  While I was a little disappointed, I completely understood their reasoning.  Every person in this lifestyle has different limitations and as a couple, this was theirs.

Another condition of mine was that we meet first in a vanilla setting, no play.  We had only met them online, never in person.  I wanted to make sure that what we thought of them online meshed with their real life personalities and I wanted the same for them.  Also, it was important for me that we all feel comfortable with each other.  I also wanted a chance to say no play if anything did not feel right.  We had discussed that if timing was right during our passage to Florida, we would have an initial meet then.  If not, we would spend two days with them on the way back up.  First night vanilla, second night, with play if we were comfortable after the first night.

Finally, our trip dates have arrived.  On our second morning, we get a message from Ryan asking how are travels are going and where we are.  Since we are but an easy day drive to them, he asks us if we can meet on the way down.  We look at our maps and timing and realize that from where we are it is a little bit of a detour but we are ahead of schedule, so we decide to make that detour.  Not only was the detour doable, but in my mind, it made sense to have that initial visit then.  It would give everyone a full week to think about the next potential visit and if we are all comfortable with each other.

The Bloggs’ arrive to our hotel where we are waiting for them out front.  The first thing I notice as they make their way across the parking lot is that Nessa is wearing the sexiest booty shorts with high black boots, and it’s damn cold outside. Her skin looks so bare.  I almost reach out to touch her legs and see if she is cold.  We hug each other in greeting and as I pull away, I realize that she is still holding on, making that embrace feel like an invitation already. Ryan and Bob give each a bro hug, which I chuckle at.  We bring them back up to our room to talk a bit before going out for supper.  Bob and Ryan do most of the talking while Nessa and I eye fuck each other and the guys.  At least, I eye fuck Ryan.  I am not sure if she checked out Bob or not. Nessa was quiet, reserved, and didn’t say too much.  I wasn’t sure what she was thinking as we observed each other. The guys hit it off and have lots to talk about.  Eventually, I ask everyone if they are hungry and would like to go get a bite to eat.  At the restaurant, as we are being seated, Nessa removes her jacket and I stare at her body, and what a nice body it is. Stunning actually.  She is wearing a multicolored knit sweater with her booty shorts.  It hugs her body beautifully and reveals a tease of the curves and lines of her body.  I am unable to sort through my thoughts at that moment.  But I know that I am comfortable with the dynamic that has been established, so far.

We have a nice dinner with great conversation about the lifestyle and other stuff too.  So it is noticeable that there are commonalities in our interests.  As we pay our bill and leave the hotel, Ryan hints that they would like to come back up to our room to have a drink and chat some more.  Honestly, I can’t remember his exact words but it was a typical Ryan (@fuckblogging) type of comment.  So I laughed and invited them back up.  Once there, we open a bottle of wine, which unfortunately was not a good one, and I felt embarrassed that I served this to them, especially knowing that they don’t usually drink wine. Unfortunately, we couldn’t get our hands on any other type of liquor.  Regardless of the bad wine, I can sense a sexual tension building. But we agreed to a vanilla meet and that is what we respected.

All in all, we had a great time in a vanilla setting and realized that on and off of twitter, we are friends.  The next day, we chat some through private chat and Ryan explains that they really liked meeting us, and would still like us to stop by if we wanted to, on the way back home.  Unfortunately, he didn’t think we could play.  He told me that while he and Vanessa were holding themselves back from sitting on either side of me and eating me up then and there (as I was so fucking cute, his words, which made me blush to no end lol), he couldn’t in good conscious, play with me and leave Bob alone to fend for himself while he and Nessa have their way with me.  He said that he really likes the friendship he and Bob are building and didn’t want to jeopardize that.  I was somewhat disappointed because I had decided that I wanted to play with them, but I understood where they were coming from and respected their decision.  So I told Ryan that was fine, and that we would still like to stop by on the way back if they were ok with that.  I also reminded them that they had a week to think about it if they wanted to change their minds.

A couple of days before the end of our vacation, Ryan checks in with us and, in a runaround way, asks if we still intend to stop in on the way back home but also provides an out if we had changed our mind.  He also tells me that he and Nessa have had a chance to talk and that they would like to play with me after all.  I tell him that I am very happy to hear it because the feeling is mutual.  I think both of them are very sexy and I would like to see what they are like when they play.  I have read so much in their blog, I wanted to experience some of it.  Ryan then outlines the rules and signals and that it will be up to me to follow them to their room to play.

When we arrive at their place, we find Nessa preparing what turned out to be a very delicious ethnic meal, something I had never tasted before.  I watch her as she prepares the meal, working efficiently.  I am so mesmerized by her movements around the kitchen, cutting and dicing the ingredients, that I forget my manners and neglect to ask her if she needed any help.   But as she is cutting the foods, I notice her hands and fingers.  She had mentioned that she has big hands, I don’t see that.  I see hands that are well cared for, soft looking, and very elegant as she handles the kitchen tools. Eventually, I snap out of it and offer the help but by then she is done the preparation.  After dinner, while Nessa and I are sipping a much better wine than the last time, and Ryan and Bob are nursing White Russians, we all sit and chat for a while.  Eventually, Ryan and Bob go off to look at and discuss their cameras (and cameras was not code word for their cocks, lol).  Nessa and I are left alone and we talk about life and family, as well as our trip.  I then asked Nessa if she wanted to read a scene I had written a number of months ago to possibly include in an erotic book that I may or may not write one day.  I observe her reactions as she reads through the scene and see her lean into it.  When she was done reading it, we discussed the story a little and then she announced she was going to go take a shower.  I did the same.

While I was showering, I realized that I am so not used to this routine.  I am used to preparing myself before getting together with those I am going to play with and then play just flows.  I am not sure how to handle these breaks in flow.  Everything seems somewhat orchestrated.  While I knew it would be like that, I hadn’t realized until that moment, that it is making me a little nervous.

When I was showered, I donned my only jammies that I had packed for easy access; a white t-shirt and satin shorts and realized that I should have packed my sexy negligee for easy access instead.  Oh well, too late. I head out to the kitchen where Ryan and Bob are talking.  Ryan invites me to head into their bedroom and relax.  I do. A few minutes later, Ryan walks in and checks on Nessa in the washroom.  When he came back out, he told me to go on ahead in.  As I peek my head in and see Nessa standing naked in front of the mirror with her hair up in a towel, she shrieks and covers herself up.  I apologize and turn around, embarrassed.  Ryan felt bad for causing an awkwardness but he said he thought we would just move towards each other and start kissing or something. LOL.  Ah well, we laughed about it and moved on, after all, blunders happen.

Nessa came out of the bathroom wearing a strapless summer dress and her wet hair cascading down to her lower back. She had her hairbrush in her hand.  I wanted to ask her if I could brush her hair but was too shy to let the question pass my lips.  I watch her brush her hair while Ryan takes his shower although she did pause to “creepshot” (not really) Ryan.  We felt the need to get him back for his little trick sending me in on Nessa.  So we took her phone and flashed the flashlight as if it was the camera, which made us laugh and relaxed us a little.

When Ryan comes out, we all take a seat around the room and look at each other.  Ryan admits that he is very nervous, as do I.  Then the thoughts start to wander and Nessa suggests that we just not play and say we did.  But I could see that this idea would disappoint her, as it would me.  So it kicks me in the ass to do something that I have only ever done once before, I took initiative and moved over to where Nessa was sitting and leaned in for a kiss.  She pushed back into my kiss as my hands wander from her face to her breast.  I caress her nipples as I feel Ryan move in behind me and move my hair away from my neck.  He proceeds to kiss my neck.  And then he moves to remove my t-shirt as I am freeing Nessa’s boob to have better access to her nipple.  Ryan leans in to kiss my neck and shoulders.  As I position myself to kiss Nessa’s breasts, Ryan moves in front of me and starts pulling down on my shorts.  He opens my legs and moves in to gently touch my clit with his tongue.  He starts eating me out and I moan.  I continue to let my hand explore Nessa’s body, moving down to her legs and feeling her through her dress.

Ryan gets up and tells Nessa she needs to taste me.  She pulls me up off the couch and I help her out of her dress. She asks if she can move me to the bed.  I tell her yes.  She guides me to the bed and as I lay down, she climbs in on top of me to kiss me some more.  Then she moves down between my legs.  Her lips and fingers feel so good on my bare pussy. Ryan moves to stand by my head.  I see his cock being revealed as Ryan slowly starts to pull down his pants. My hand reaches out to help release his cock and I take it and start to stroke it bringing it closer to me, I so wanted to taste it.  I open my mouth and allow his cock to slide in and out of my mouth, going deeper with every thrust.  I hear Nessa in my ear telling me to take his cock, all of it and that I am a good girl.  Both Ryan and Nessa are talking about me as I suck his cock as if I am their pet.  It excites me even more. And then he moves in an unexpected position.  He straddles my head so that he can properly fuck my face.  In and out of my mouth, deep in my throat.  While Ryan believes he wasn’t hard, he certainly wasn’t soft either.  I am thrilled to feel him in the back of my throat as he makes me gag slightly while Nessa is playing with my pussy.

Ryan pulls out of my mouth and Nessa moves to sit on my face.  I watch as her pussy comes down over my mouth and I start to eat her hungrily.  Ryan lines himself up behind Nessa and over my face and proceeds to penetrate her as I lick from Nessa’s pearl to Ryan’s balls.  A few thrusts and Ryan disappears from my view and lose track of him until I hear a vibration nearby.  My mind jumps in that “holy shit, he’s got the hitachi out!” way.  Then I feel him apply it to my clit and happens to hit the ring in just the right way and within seconds I explode, my whole body out of my control, enraptured by the orgasm as I continue to eat and lick Nessa, my head trapped between her legs.

Nessa turns around, still on my face, to look towards Ryan, he applies the hitachi a few more times to my nether region until I have to plead for him to stop.  As Nessa leans down to eat me while I eat her, I feel her feathery soft hair cascade across my belly.   It is so soft and feels like tendrils awakening an arousal in me.  Then Nessa leans back grabbing hold of my ankles holding my legs open while Ryan starts to tease my clit with his cock.  Then Ryan relieves Nessa’s hand from one of my ankles and tells her to spread my lips open, exposing my pearl, which he continues to tease and cock slap.

He then disappears to put on a condom.  When he comes back, I feel him penetrate me, slowly.  And I hear him tell Nessa that he is getting harder, that my pussy is making his cock harder.  He asks her a question which I don’t quite hear, and definitely do not hear her answer, and I know Ryan did not hear either because he pulls out and moves to get off the bed when Nessa speaks up and tells him to get back, which he does.  I can hear him urging her to talk to him.  I am about ready to call it quits as I am sensing there is a problem but it seems to get back on track so I continue to eat out Nessa.

Next thing I know, I see Ryan place himself over me and lines himself up with Nessa’s vagina.  He holds himself as he pushes his cock into her pussy.  I rest my head back on the pillow for a moment and watch him make his approach, giving him room to maneuver.  I can’t stay back long however, and proceed to continue licking and sucking Nessa’s pearl.

Ryan then lies down on the bed and asks Nessa and I to give him attention.  I suck his cock while Nessa licks and plays with Ryan’s balls.  Nessa and I kiss each other around Ryan’s cock, and we both lick him.  Ryan asks us to switch.  So I move to Ryan’s balls and Nessa moves up to his cock.  As I am licking his ring behind his balls, I stick my finger over his asshole, apply pressure and wiggle my finger around.  And I lick everywhere between his balls and his anus and even suck on his ring while Nessa sucks his cock.  Then Ryan and Nessa remark that his cock has hardened and that I should get to have it in my mouth since I did such a good job behind his balls.  As I take it, Ryan asks me if I deserve a taste.  I moan “mmhmm”.  Again they make me feel like their pet, and this turns me on even more.  Then Nessa takes Ryan’s cock from me to have it for herself, so I go back to licking his balls, behind his balls and playing with his ass.

And this is where we had an interruption in play and I return to my hubby in the other room, where I found him with a hard on like you wouldn’t believe.  He heard all the moans and groans, and imagined what was happening.  He kissed me, tasting Nessa on my lips, and guided me to the bed, where he climbed on top of me and slid his cock inside me.  He fucked me as I detailed everything that happened with the Bloggs’.  And as he pumped hard inside me, I remind him that I just fucked two people and he wasn’t there.  He came, and hard.

And that my friends is where I will end my story as I fell asleep rather quickly after that.  Except that my clit was still quite sensitive as I write this story.

Ryan’s perspective:

We’ve known Lexxi and Bob for over a year.  This is a couple that actively swings and I’d consider them fairly good online friends.  We were asked to meet the year before and politely declined.  The next year, Nessa and I accepted.  As most of our everyday readers know our first threesome experiences were blogged about in mid December of this past year, 2013.  To say we are new to that lifestyle is an understatement.

We met, I loved them.  She was cute, he was cool.  I read Lexxi’s version prior to writing mine, so I’d like to say something about our “bro hug.”   Did me and Bob bro hug?   No way, we all out gay man hugged and we both enjoyed it thoroughly.   He had no choice because I pulled him into me and squeezed.  Welcome to my world.

Hah.

When I met Lexxi, she was very cute and the first girl besides my mom and Nessa to kiss me, although nicely on the cheek, in probably 18 or more years.  I liked it.

During our first meeting I was playful and had a good time.  We hung out a bit at their hotel room and eventually picked a restaurant we would try out for the night.   Although I loved their company, it didn’t take me long to pick up on how awkward it was for me to look at Lexxi, while Nessa looked at Lexxi, and Bob, looked at us.  At dinner I let them both know that this was the first and last time I would ever meet a couple, that had the possibility of play, because I could feel it was a dynamic I would never be comfortable with.  I asked questions and was curious about their lifestyle.  I quickly learned the different pressures (or for some, no pressure) of being in the swinging community: who can last the longest, what’s your size, who can stay hard, who can perform, and who can’t.  When I say uncomfortable, this made me extremely uncomfortable.  Why?  Well for one, I’m an introvert, and the thought of being judged by others has always kept me somewhat to myself.  But also, I prided myself in not getting too turned on during the threesomes we had already had.  Nessa prided herself in this as well.  My personality will never be that of a guy that gets extremely sexual or overly excited at the simple sight of a pretty face and breasts.  I also feel my excitement is connected to an emotional attachment, which in this lifestyle, is usually a big no-no.  However, it was this nonchalant attitude towards other women that led Nessa to be okay with us having threesomes to begin with.  So my “gift”, in the swinging circle, was viewed as a “curse.”  At times, I would joke and say, “I was just one of the girls, I just have a dick hanging between my legs.”   I didn’t care.  For some reason, I started to care.

This was really a pressure that I had never felt, and probably the same reason I was a virgin up until I met Nessa.  I just stayed away from it all.   It wasn’t them though, it was myself.  Let me clarify that.  As a couple, Lexxi nor Bob never made me feel any pressure in any way.  They both were extremely helpful and have given me advice throughout all the changes we have made in the last year.  I’m over analytical and that’s the reason why I blog to begin with.  You’re reading this blog now, because Nessa and I like to overanalyze everything, from our lives, to our love, to our sex and our experiences.   At no time did Lexxi nor Bob pressure us to meet or play.  If anything, Nessa finding Lexxi so cute was all the pressure I needed.  I knew if she wanted to play and our hard boundary is we are together no matter what, unless I wanted to disappoint her, I was going to have this experience with her.

The first night ended, the wine reminded me of Nessa’s urine shot on my birthday, Lexxi and Bob were amazing, and Nessa was happy.

The next day I messaged Lexxi and let her know that if they wanted to meet again on their way back up from their trip south, we’d give them a place to stay.  I also let her know, the trip back would probably end up being strictly a vanilla thing.   Although that was our original intentions, throughout the week, from Nessa wanting to experience her, and me finding Lexxi extremely adorable, we changed our mind.  I sent them a message and let them know we were okay to play with Lexxi, and we sorted out the different details.   Our details and nuances definitely kept the night from just flowing, but we are absolute planners.  We planned the dinner, the shower, and yes, even what we would or wouldn’t do during the threesome.  Maybe the flow comes later, but now it’s about figuring out what we do and don’t like, without making mistakes in the process.  I assume Lexxi knew this ahead of time, which is why she made the move first.  I’m glad she did.

I think, from this point, both different perspectives nicely document what happened during our experience so I couldn’t add much else.   At no point did I get erect, but I am flattered Lexxi says it felt like it.  It had nothing to do with her, her looks, or what happened, and had everything to do with me being new, not being used to the different pressures I felt, and not wanting to overstep my boundaries with Nessa.   Would I have gotten erect if I kept moving inside Lexxi during penetration?  I believe so.  It was the only moment in the night where I actually felt my body  start to respond (even more than the amazing oral afterwards).  It was also a first for me to be inside another woman, with a condom, moving my dick back and forth while Nessa watched.  That’s a big deal to us.  So I can see why Lexxi may have almost stopped at that point (Nessa and I talking or me trying to get clear clarification on exactly what Nessa wanted to see at one point), but I am glad she didn’t, because them playing with me afterwards felt amazing.   I enjoyed both totally, and having those two give you oral sex, can make any man swoon.  It really was like I was one of the girls, because half the time all I saw was their faces totally in my lap, no penis in sight.

In hindsight, I had fun and have went over the different pros and cons of that situation with Nessa.  She said the biggest pro was she was turned on by me using a condom and penetrating while she watched.  In the future, we have decided to only use condoms if there is any penetration, but agreed that the ‘no  penetration’ is no longer a boundary either of us want.  Some limits hinder the experience.

Bob, thanks.  Anytime you want a gay man hug, you know where to find me.  Lexxi, you were all woman and I appreciate the experience.  Hopefully, helping a couple learn themselves wasn’t too much of a turn off, we’ll eventually get it right.

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